So I need something from all of you

today I learned how m uc h my father makes a year before and after benefits deductions. So could everyone tell me (you don't have but no one is gonna make fun of you if you don't make that much cause it all depends on where you live, wages, etc, etc) how much you make in a year? Then i'll let you all know how much my father makes before and after his deductions.

LOL he only wants to pay $175.00 for his child support lol he is gonna have to pay alot more with his current pay.

ignore that

Well I told ya my input........... Now I want something from all of everyone!!!

More chat participation!!!!!! :P

thats a little to much personal information

wake up boy don't believe ur mothers bullshit

excuse me?

what exactly is my mom's bull shit??? that my dad abused her and left her to take care of hers and his kids on her own well he did shit all. And then when my mom left when I was one he didn't pay child support until the government caught up to him late last year so he moved across country to try and get away again, but he wanted to make less payments then 300 and took my mom to court for the payment to be 175.

Is that my mom's bullshit? or let me guess your a father that has to pay child support and the mother of ur kid(s) got a lot of money out of you so you just think any mother that has to go for child support payments is just bull shiting everyone?

oh and if my mom's "bull shit" is how much my father makes, well I have the court papers that tell me how much he makes a week, and I did the math and I got how much he makes a year. then I found a child support calculator and how much he makes child support should be almost a grand.

Yes, I agree it is personal information, and I encourage Ian to not disclose too much about his personal life, EVER on the internet and in this game.

There are many unkind individuals on the internet who use the information to hurt people. I made the mistake of confiding something personal in nature to Wendy in this game, and low and behold........she used it to smack me with over a stupid game. Poor character, in my opinion. You live and you learn.

Just be careful, Ian. Remember, you never really know who you are talking to on the other end of the computer.

And Stevie..........SCOWL!!!!!! You don't know the situation in Ian's family, and that was an unkind thing to say to a 14 year old child about his mom. It doesn't matter what the mom says. It matters what the court says, and if the court mandates child support, the father is required to pay, and should want to pay, in my opinion. Any decent man would wa

Why? Just out of curiosity Lady...My ex wife was abusive and went slowly bug nuts...Till she ended up telling stories and getting me arrested, and then she went and married a rather disgusting fat rich guy within 6 months.
Yet I have to pay child support.
For being in an abusive relationship with a woman that is literally insane, because I felt that protecting my son from that was worth the hell she put me through. And because of the lies she told, if I point out that she is insane, and can prove it (which I can thanks to some shrinks), the state will take our son away. She's much better behaved now because she needs to back up the lies she's told her new husband and my son only has a few years now till he can get away from her thankfully.
So in your opinion I should be paying child support even though she is rather wealthy now and has absolutely no need for it other then a way to punish me?
See, that's the problem with

It's a pity people appear to not have any common sense by revealing details of their personal life to complete strangers.

In ref to the original headline on this topic of "So I need something from all of you", i'm just going to say yeh i'll tell you what it is - "Common Sense".

yea but the difference in the stories praxis is that my father admitted to me that he was abusive.

I'm not saying that all mothers behave appropriately. I'm just saying that you can't assume that the mother is the one telling lies. Each case is different.

If I were a moderator, I would delete this thread.

I don't anyone to expose their lives like this on the internet. No good will come from this. Quite the opposite.

+1 LG

no one notices the second comment -_-

If you look carefully at the very first post, the only question actually being posed is "how much do you guys make?" The very next post with the same name says "ignore that".
There is a possible explanation for this, other than the obvious one;
Possible scenario:
JM's account was hacked by the IRS to find out how much each of us is making. In order to make it nearly impossible to trace it back to them, they contracted the work in compartmentalized form to the CIA, the NKVD (which was the KGB, which was the NKVD before that), who both worked through their contacts in the Trilateral Comission and the Bildeberg group, Both of whom are in the Federal Reserve (which is neither Federal nor a Reserve). By forwarding a work order ostensibly from the NSA, they got the boys at DARPA to hack the account by using the HAARP equipment, routed back thru Area 51. They could have come up with this plan after consulting with

I agree with Laguna, use common sense and start a different thread on a different topic of discussion please!

@maclean.......funny d ud e! @everyone else open your EYES

lol to all of this...

Revealing and asking for too much details is ridiculous... +100 to LG...

Well in Ian's defense, he is young. It's a mistake that alot of us make, myself included. I have done this and suffered the consequences.

My advice......be careful.

Crap, I just read some of this. We must be very careful who we deal with and how we speak in this hell. Too many secret agent services are out about already. I too have learnt me lesson in times that we must be careful. +1 to The Wicked Lady, she says, be careful or suffer the consequences which I normally don't believe in, but I guess its true, never let your guard down.

I was going to interject something here but little voice in my head said to just let it be. All I will say is that this is why I don't share support information with my kids, and in my view parents shouldn't. Kids got enough to worry about. Not to cast any aspersions on John M's situation, but yeah, this stuff is best left off the web.