Lord Eddie,
Not sure if you are still around, but it isn't wise in this sort of game to come in and attack long time, seasoned players. You would be wise to not attack them and to learn from them.
Regarding the forum, there IS a lot of bickering that goes on, but there is alot of help to be gained from the forum. The so called bickering is stemmed from game politics and nothing more or a frustration that a player may have. There are a lot of helpful tips and guides to help you on the forum, some fun threads, something to interest everyone. Don't take everything you read too serious. At the end of the day, bickering or no amongst ourselves, for the most part we all get along. lol