Bob, I feel it is important that people who have been through all of that, and experienced, and seen what you have experienced and saw, to recount their stories to others who have been so lucky and privileged, such as myself, to have never had to do what you did.
You may not have to come out and say anything publicly, if you do not feel so inclined, but maybe write a journal and write down some of your experiences. As hard as it may be for you to reveal your inner-most feelings, of everything you have done or saw in war, it is important that you get these things out eventually. Mostly for future generations. The next generation coming, such as my little neice and nephew, who are currently 5 years old, should be taught the horrors of war, so that they would not have as likelyhood of a chance for actually seeing it themselves. Noone deserves that, period!
The more war-vet stories that are published, the more the public may come to hate war
Thank you for the kind words, Michael.
I should elabroate, however, on the seeming contradiction of my views.
I have seen the carnage and suffering we wreak upon each other and have indeed learned to hate war. That said, I know that the only way to avoid war is to prepare vigorously for it. That is a very old aphorism, but it remains so because of its central truth regarding the human condition.
Real evil exists in the world because it exists in the human heart. There will always be those that will act on the negative tendencies in all of us. Or worse, those who will inflict evils in the name of a greater good.
I know why we were in Vietnam. I know what role I played in the conflict. I don't agree with nearly anything in terms of the what, where, when, and how of the manner in which we conducted that conflict.
But I fully comprehend and agree with the WHY.
We drew a line in the sand for the Sino
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Michael Morrison (White Giant)
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Oh! I totally agree on the importance of us being prepared for war. There is never any doubt about that. I would much prefer to use anything and everything in our power to defuse such situations, whether through sports, dialogue, or any other alternative means at our disposal.
War should ALWAYS be the very last resort.
Cuba is another nation that I can think of that I can see becoming more liberal, like China is now, in the future. Which is why I am glad we never went to real war against that nation. Fidel's brother has instituted 2 new freedoms, that may seem really minor, but in actuality is quite a big step forward:
The Cuban people are now allowed to stay in hotels and own cell phones. That may seem quite ridiculous to us, especially considering that a good 80% of that population could not even AFFORD such "luxuries." But it IS a step in the right direction. That will be the legacy of the brother of Fidel (can
Yes, societies across the globe are becoming more liberal. However, have we forgotten that relatively modern, "liberal" societies have found reason for conflict in the past?
Wars tend to be about economic consequences of population pressures. Plenty of those pressures are around the world and will likely intensify.
Question for you to ponder.
What were the ideological and societal differences between the belligerents of WWI, Franco-Prussian, Crimean War, etc?
On a personal note, Michael. Feel free to jump in as you like. The two Roberts are just gabbing and he is helping me experiment with my writing, but this is not a closed conversation.
And never apologize even indirectly for not having worn a uniform. Many good men never have and many boys did that shouldn't have.
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Michael Morrison (White Giant)
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I guess all those wars had at least one thing in common: Extreme nationalism.
No matter how liberal a country is, there is still going to be rather fervant nationalist feelings towards ones own country, making it almost impossible to there never being a war somewhere on the globe. So I guess I agree with ya there.
No matter how much you say to never apologize for never wearing a uniform, there is still that guilt factor when you see a few of your friends being sent off to war straight from high school.
The summer after I graduated, which was just after 9/11, is when I tried signing up for the air force. They asked if I have ever had any kind of injuries, and I said yes, I busted my ankle twice. They sent me to a hospital to have x-rays taken to see if there is scar tissue. There was. A whole lot of it. I was rejected...lol even though we were at war.
Deep down, I was always glad of that, and that's where some of the
Michael. Your friends volunteered. Drafts been gone for a long time now. If you think you have something for which to atone, donate a few bucks to some of the veteran's charities. Other than that, don't even waste a moment of life thinking about it. We choose our own paths.
My point about the conflicts of past is that simlar societies are perfectly capable of coming to blows. Every nation on Earth could become a representative democracy with a free market economy and we would still have wars.
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Michael Morrison (White Giant)
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Well, yeah, there will still be wars between representative democracies. Look at Iran. The people do elect their president (i think? His title IS "President of Iran" after all. But I do not know how Iran's government works, or how it is run)
Countries can hold elections, but does not mean they are fair, or there is no or very little corruption. Happens in Africa all the time.
But the countries in question, such as China and N.Korea, can become perfectly good model democracies decades from now. When that happens to countries like that, the likelihood for them to go against another, similar democratic society, is much reduced.
Sorry, I dunno about donating any money to vet charities, at least for the time being. I have no dispossible income at all. As things stand, I can barely afford to so much as feed myself, and to put gas in my car just to get to my 2 crappy part time jobs, while going to school part time as
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JMR32 (Golden Rainbow)
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Hey guys! The prodigal son has returned. Some interesting conversations here while I was away.
Bob, your approach to your war experiences is so on target. If you will note in those other books you referenced, the true heroes do not glorify what they did. War IS hell, and sane and rational men get no enjoyment from it. I had an E7 friend at Knox who had been in an LRRP unit in Nam, he told me about the methods employed by the NVA "political education units". It's much better not to go into detail.
But as long as there is evil in the world, and good men (and women) willing to risk their lives to combat it, there will be war. And where there is war, there will be innocents, and innocence, lost.
Is there such a thing as a "just" war? I would like to think that war to free an oppressed people or to prevent genocide are justifiable reasons for conflict. But I am contradicted by reality. The Bosnian conflict