Neidy,
It was not my intention to apologize for any of the actions on either side in that war. Only to point out that both sides are worthy of condemnation. You conveniently overlook the fact that those troops squeezed into those cities indeed had other options - one could look to both Paris and Rome for an example on either side. Each was in line with the 1907 Hague Convention.
Britain and France were not to blame for the Holocaust - they pulled no triggers. Neither did America when it refused emmigration. Nor was the Catholic Church who aided and abetted the fascists. Nor were the Syrians, Jordanians, and Palestians who rioted in their streets when it was proposed to send the Jews there. Germany and Germany alone had the responsibility. Along with all the enthusiastic collaborators in France and Poland, and in other occupied countries who shared their anti-Semitic views.
The fact that the "civilized" nations of the world have repeatedly looked away when genocide has been committed is a troubling fact to me. Especially those that supposedly champion human rights. And whether that has occurred in Germany under Hitler, the Ukraine under Stalin, the Cultural revolution in china, Pol Pot, Darfur, Rwanda, the list just goes on and on. However, I think the fact that Germany tried to remove them before executing them does deserve some mention. As well as the fact that their policies concerning racial purity were an outgrowth of United States policies at that time. Eugenics is a dirty word now, but back then it was prevalent in all Western civilizations. Sweden ended their Eugenics program in the 1970s. Is it really that much of a difference in why people are discriminated against? Whether it's skin color, culture, or age, gender, or physical infirmity? All seem equally repugnant to me.
You do realize that we were allies with Stalin? Who killed over 5 times the amount of people that Hitler did? I see you do. Again, demonizing one side over the other. 6 million in German controlled areas versus 30 million in the Ukraine. While both are reprehensible, calling the lesser evil a greater one requires some agile mental gymnastics, doesn't it? However using this as a justification for the war is similar to Lincoln using the slave issue in the United States as a justification for war. Sounds nice, but it just ain't so.
True, the Germans had no justification for the invading of countries who were not party to the Treaty of Versailles. But, that includes those poor countries you mentioned. What was taken? Not just overseas colonies, such as those subjugated by the British and French in Africa, the middle east, the near east and Indo-china; but territory that was part of the country of Germany itself. I urge you to consider what a British or American response would be to the permanent annexation of California or Wales would be.
I am no respecter of any culture. It would be great if men were all brothers under our skin, but the truth is we are all murderers, rapists and cannibals ( to paraphrase Mencken).
As to your comment about total war and destruction being necessary to relive wrong-headed notions about superiority, who is going to be the arbiter? With the current world situation, are you recommending the carpet bombing of Muslim countries? What about the Chinese who have always considered themselves superior to the Westerners? Should we preemptively bomb them, so we don't have to worry about a future war, which is surely coming?
I'm going to have to disagree with you about the countries in question being treated with respect. Again, that requires mental gymnastics that I can't quite achieve.
Would Germany and Japan have treated defeated nations differently? I sincerely doubt Germany would have. After all, they partitioned France and occupied part of it. Just as was done to them. I think a country defeated by the Japanese would have suffered more than just the permanent elimination of their armed forces (although that has been worked around). Or the impression of up to 300k comfort women to service the occupying forces. (although in a small way they achieved some revenge for that. Over 25% of the occupying forces left with some form of venereal disease.)
The original plan was for de-industrialization of Japan, not it's economic growth. We rebuilt Germany in order to have something to counterpoise to our Great Ally Stalin. Indeed, certain segments of the American military forces wanted to keep going all the way to the Pacific. And enlist the Nazi's to help do it. The plan for Japan was changed for pretty much the same reason.